Fireworks, parades, and backyard gatherings are Independence Day traditions, but they can also create unique challenges for families and friends affected by Alzheimer’s disease and related dementias. The Alzheimer’s Foundation of America (AFA) offers these tips to help families create a dementia-friendly holiday:
Avoid live fireworks displays. Fireworks and loud explosions can agitate someone living with dementia. Consider keeping the person in a quiet, indoor area at times when they might hear fireworks. Adapt the fireworks tradition by watching fireworks displays on TV.
Have a plan. For someone living with dementia, prepare the person in advance by sharing that there may be loud noises. Continue gently doing so at different points during the time you are together. Air conditioners, white noise machines, familiar, favorite or soothing music also can help support and comfort your loved one.
Avoid involving the person in large gatherings. Large crowds can be overwhelming and disorienting for someone living with dementia, so if you’re planning a gathering, keep it small. Consider providing name tags for everyone to help cue your loved one. Consider a lunchtime or daytime event to reduce anxiety and confusion.
Be festive and creative. Create patriotic decorations with your loved one, try playing or singing familiar patriotic music, baking 4th of July themed desserts, or compiling a family album with pictures of past Independence Day memories. These festive July 4th activities have the added benefit of being cognitively stimulating, and help your loved one express themselves creatively.
